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'And that's the first step, isn't it? Admitting that you can't control yourself, admitting that you're POWERLESS over your addiction,' Robert says. Laura expresses that she's fearful because the events of that night have caused her to become a thrill-seeker and engage in increasingly risky sex acts. He has seemingly been doing it for the entire time Laura has been speaking. As Laura speaks, we focus in on Robert, who we see is subtly and, apparently unbeknownst to the women, fondling his crotch. As she was fucking for the first time, a group of people watched and filmed everything, ultimately posting the video online. When it's time for Laura to speak, she shares her story of losing her virginity just after she turned 18. And THAT, is the way to move forward, he adds. You can DECIDE to be something new every day,' Robert says. 'It's important to remember that your past doesn't define you, and your past ACTIONS don't define you. Thanks for sharing, Robert says to Bianca. The women don't notice.Since then, Bianca adds, she's lost her innocence and no longer believes in monogamy, feeding her addiction by fucking random men. As he listens, a look of lust comes over Robert and he licks his lips subtly. Next, Bianca shares her story of being blackmailed into cheating on her boyfriend when she was 19 while, unbeknownst to him, he listened on the phone. 'But I promise you-and I'M living proof-I promise you that there IS an answer out there for you,' he says kindly.

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That kind of experience can send you into behavior loops and patterns that you think you'll never break free from, he continues. The event traumatized her, causing her to associate family with sex. She hesitantly describes being tricked into fucking her boyfriend and her stepdaughter by the manipulative daughter. CUT TO TITLE 'And we can begin with you,' Robert says kindly, indicating Marlene.

'Please introduce yourselves, and if you're comfortable.share,' he says. Of course, sharing is NOT obligatory, but it can be a very helpful tool in recovery, so he would like to now go around in a circle, he continues.

As they work through their steps, they are offered the chance to tell their stories, he goes on. So he'd like to thank them all for coming, he continues. 'I invited each of the three of you to come tonight because you've each stood out to me in the regular meetings due to the fact that each of your stories is oubling,' he adds, 'and felt you might benefit from some special attention.' Again, the three ladies eye each other curiously. He's sure they've noticed that this is a much smaller group than they're all used to, Robert continues. He's been in recovery for 5 years now, and leading meetings like this for 3, Robert goes on. But like all of them, it's not heroin or booze that's his addiction and affliction -he's a sex addict, he continues. They eye each other warily before shifting their gaze to Robert (Seth Gamble), a charming, handsome and sympathetic-looking man. They all hold coffee cups and look nervous and somewhat uncomfortable, fidgeting in their chairs. I know that there are also meetings specifically for the LGBTQ community, however, I have never attended one.SEX ADDICTS ANONYMOUS 3 NYMPHOMANIACS CONFESS TO COMPULSIVE & DESTRUCTIVE SEXUAL HABITS IN SUPPORT GROUP SCENE OPENS on Marlene (Reagan Foxx), Laura (Jaye Summers), and Bianca (Jane Wilde). And it all just goes downhill from there in terms of healthy, sexual intimacy, boundaries, and committed/monogamous relationships. They are generally are watching porn regularly before even holding hands with their first love interest, or even before their first kiss. The biggest takeaway that I walked out with is that men are BOMBARDED with porn, or the expectation of indulging in viewing porn, from a very young age in order to conform to some unspoken standard of masculinity.

They share in a general way, and focus on maintaining recovery. People donвЂ™t share graphic sexual experiences, being that they are вЂњtriggersвЂќ. Some of the guys were in long term marriages, and seemed resolved to work things out with their wives, and I admired their efforts. ItвЂ™s just like an AA meeting, except it was attended overwhelmingly by men, and they talked about stuff like staying away from triggers, or freaking out when cleaning out the garage, and coming across old, stashed and forgotten porn. SheвЂ™s a total mess.ДЄnyhow, she lost her job when her bossвЂ™s wife found out that they were screwing, and she decided she had a problem, and wanted to go to a meeting. She even tried to fuck one of my boyfriends. SheвЂ™s broken up marriages, fucked her boss.